Beelinda, Accelia and James

Part V na pala ito ng yearly kamusta self ko starting from 2017’s Starting Over Again

Kakapanood ko lang ng Vince, Kath, and James so yeah. The title is a lame and unoriginal way to channel that unimpressive and kinda boring movie.

Napaaga yung self kamusta ko ngayon! Why? Kasi Anniversary na namin ni Accelia. It has been more than a year since nakipag break ako Kay Nikia. And exactly a year since maging kami ni Accelia.

Pero imbis na sabihin ko kung gaano ako ka not unhappy kay Accelia, siyempre aawayin ko muna ulit yung ex kong nag cause ng trauma.

Ganon kasi ako as a DDS. Never na kasalanan ko. Kasalanan lagi ng iba.

Kung meron mang walang katapusan sa mundo ito ay pagbabago at yung reklamo ko kay Beelinda kahit 3 months lang kami HAHAHAHA.

So ano nanaman bang reklamo ko kay Beelinda? Four years na since nag break kami reklamo parin ako. Well, alam niyo yung relationship-life balance?

As much as possible kasi, ayokong dinadala yung relationship ko sa bahay. Lalo na ngayon na relationship from home karamihan satin.

So isang instance with Beelinda was like this.

Beelinda: ‘Alam mo ba kung paano gawin ito?’

Cong: ‘Ahh yes sir nakalista yan sa notes ko sa laptop’

Beelinda: ‘Dapat saulo mo yan paano kung ganito na nasa labas tayo edi hindi mo masasagot yung tanong’

Don’t get me wrong ha. Ok yung alam mo lahat sa relationship mo. Pero kasi una. Pag natapos yung oras ko sa relationship day natin. Off na ako. Ayoko na isipin until the next relationship day.

Rarasonan pa ako ng paano pag wala yung laptop mo at yung notes mo edi wala na.

Retrospectively, I should have said. Yes Beelinda. Pag wala akong laptop at wala akong notes yes wala na talaga. Kung wala ako laptop it means na either sira laptop ko which blocks me from doing anything in our relationship or naka rest day ako which I do not want to be bothered with your relationship stuff.

Pero siyempre, hindi ko sinagot si Beelinda kasi DDS na ako noon palang so natural lang na duwag ako. Yung oo lang ng oo sa sinasabi ni Beelinda no matter how ridiculous the request.

So ayan, after four years since nag meet kami ni Beelinda, ano ba pinag kaiba ni Accelia sa kanya.

Contrary to popular belief na hindi ok si Accelia na ka relationship kasi toxic. I learned na iba iba personality ni Accelia. I was lucky enough not to draft the toxic side when we got into our relationship.

Kay Accelia, na struck ko yung personal perfect balance ng relationship-life balance.

Tapos kay Accelia ok lang na hindi ka lagi naka on.

Sample ulit.

With Beelinda. 10mins before mag out nag iimpake na ako ng gamit.

Beelinda: Bakit nag iimpake kna uwian mo na ba?

Cong:  Yes sir in 10mins.

Beelinda: Dapat nag iimpake ka pag out mo na.

Tapos alam mo ung feeling na naiinis siya kasi ayaw mong i extend relationship hours mo for free. Nakakabadtrip.

With Accelia, mga 10mins after ng relationship hours namin (minsan kasi 5am-2pm ako sa kanya), pag 2:10pm na sasabihan na ako nyan. Uyyy Norman 2:10 na bukas na ulit natin tuloy relationship natin.

NAKAKATUWA!!! Tapos rinerespect pa niya rest days mo. Accelia be like, ahhh Norman you are on Rest Day today let me reschedule so we can all join. Yes polygamous si Accelia pero lahat naman ng past relationship ko polygamous.

I have to plug Nikia here of course isa siya sa catalyst ng how a relationship could be. Shout out sa kanya. Pero naka move on naman na ako sa kanya. Happy times with Nikia, putrid memories with Beelinda.

After 1 year, I would not say na happy ako. Kasi usually pag sinasabi ko yun biglang ayoko na sa relationship or it goes downhill from there. For now, after 1 year, I am not unhappy. But I have grown to hone and appreciate my own skills dito.

Hindi ko alam gaano katagal itong kay Accelia. Sana next year maka move on na ako ng tuluyan kay Beelinda para hindi na ako nag mumukhang petty ex.

For now, Salamat Accelia. I’ve never felt as valuable and indispensable in almost 8 years and six girlfriends.